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Going a little over
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June 15, 2012 at 6:54 pm #5251
So normally you know when you have gone over what you planned to eat that day, it’s not always dramatic but if I go over 200 calories or a packet of crisps more than I planned to eat that day I find it hard not to go all the way and continue eating, as I sort of think ” I have ruined it anyway.” I logically know this is wrong and unhelpful to think like this but it’s just natural, how can I talk myself out of it when I feel this because I guess it’s only natural to eat a little more some days and it’s bound to happen, I just don’t want it to spiral into a binge. I find it hard not to have a rough plan of what I’m going to eat and I do leave myself a margin of error but I still find myself in this situation.June 16, 2012 at 3:24 am #95327
Yes, this is the thought that leads to a binge ALWAYS. I remembered I had really good time of no binges, like 2 months, then I had dig into some pistachios. I freaked out because I was trying to only have raw almonds, not pistachios. And I thought I must off added 200 calories to my day, so I was fuck it, I am gonna binge and just start this over tomorrow because tomorrow, I wont mess this up. (But tomorrow I usually do mess up too.) I feel like my binge eating disorder tries to find a outlet like that to make an excuse for. I struggle with accepting a day where eating wasn’t as healthy as I thought, but it is hard. I even freak out if I have more cream in my coffee then I should and my binge eating self tries to myself, “just eat, you are not loosing any weight today anyway.”June 16, 2012 at 1:53 pm #95328
Its like the “binge trick” that seems to always get me. It’s so hard to talk myself out of it. And I know what you mean about the “tomorrow” thing but sometimes it gets to the next day and I look back and think well I messed up yesturday may aswell mess up today I’m already fat… it’s too annoying.June 16, 2012 at 3:29 pm #95329
When I was perfect size too I thought, “well, I reached my goal. One more day won’t hurt. It is worth it.” Binging tries to work through the mind no matter what size you are.June 16, 2012 at 5:11 pm #95330
True. There has to be a way to beat this!!June 17, 2012 at 4:24 am #95331
There is… Binge or get over it (Get over the fact you went a little over). The choice is ours lol. You have to think “at least I didn’t binge. I COULD have done a lot worst) AFter I binge, I always wished I stopped after the first bowl of cereal, or the second candy bar lol.June 17, 2012 at 10:50 am #95332
Yeah thats true! I’ll just tell myself I could have done worse. Stopping halfway through is still progress I guess . Thank you!June 17, 2012 at 4:11 pm #95333
HI there. Nice to meet you.
I always have that exact way of thinking. It’s like, if I mess up and pig out a little, then I’ll say screw it, I want to get every bit of naughty binging out of this night that I can since I’ve already gone and messed up…becuase tommorrow I won’t be binging!!! (Same thing happens the following day).
It is sooo hard to stop at that point, once you’ve overeaten just a little…I honestly only know of a handful of times I’ve been able to do that. I just went and distracted myself I think…go and make yourself busy with something that is totally unrelated to food. Go do laundry. Go walk around the block 8 times. Read a book in the bath. Leave the house. Go to bed…ANYTHING!!! Wether its something you enjoy or something that keeps your hands busy…I think that is the only thing that has helped me stop the binge that I’ve started a little of.
Good luck to you.June 18, 2012 at 12:11 am #95334
I agree with Singphanotm. I’ve found that when I feel that starting to happen if I can distract myself in some way it’s less likely to get out of control. I try to leave the area, so if I’m at work, go home or vise versa. I’ll call someone or start on a project that I’ve been putting off such as cleaning the kitchen etc. It doesn’t always work, but it does help break the cycle.
xoxoJune 18, 2012 at 4:24 am #95335
Ahh! I like that, find another activity to do. That is what I am doing now lol. Going to this website before I binge.June 18, 2012 at 11:37 am #95336
Yeah thats true it’s good going onto this website before I binge because it reminds me of my goal . Thank you for all your help
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