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CBT - the steps

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  • Started 2 months ago by jacquirsw1
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  1. jacquirsw1
    Member

    Hi everyone.

    Andrew suggested I post these as I have found them successful in my battle against my disorder.

    It would be a very long post if I did them all in one go, so will list them here and then explain each of them a little more in depth in their own threads if people want me to.

    There are 6 steps in the therapy that I did, and the speed that you go through them is completely and utterly up to the individual, and an important thing to get your head around is that it is ok to go back a step as well. If you have moved on and find that you really don't work yet on the step you have gone on to the you just go back to the one you did manage have a bit longer there and then try again.

    So the steps.

    STEP 1 - Getting started, this is the most important step of all of them and the one that you should make sure you do not rush through, as getting this right is the underpinning part of everything else.
    This step is about recording, it is about starting to identify the reason you binge. The things you binge on. Where you binge, and the times that you binge. This gives information that later on will be important to help overcome your binge eating.

    I have a recording sheet that is used that I would be happy to share with people but apart from emailling it on request wouldn't know how to put it on here.

    STEP 2 - Regular eating, most of you will identify with the very erratic eating patterns that often go along with BED, the periods of eating very little which lead to binging, the restricting of food types or amount. Well this section is to encourage regular eating, and involves one of the biggest things that have helped me... The advice that if you have had a binge DO NOT then try to compensate for it in any way, have your next meal when you were going to have it and have what you were going to have.

    STEP 3 - Alternatives to binge eating, as we are aware most of us will be using our binge eating to hide other reasons. This is the step where we begin to explore that more fully and look at what alternatives are there for us to use.

    STEP 4 - Problem solving and taking stock, this step carries on from the previous one continuing to look at ways to prevent further binging. I found that by this point my binges had virtually stopped.

    STEP 5 - Dieting and other forms of food advoidance, This step is there to help achieve lasting recovery and help with the issues that lead to binging and it's continuation.

    STEP 6 - What next, this is the end of the process and continues to look at skills needed to maintain the recovery.

    I hope this made some sense, and if anyone wants more details then I would be happy to sort it out for you.

    Jacqui

    Posted 2 months ago #
  2. Jacqui,

    Thanks so much for writing out the steps, I'm sure many forum readers will find them helpful in their own binge eating recovery.

    Posted 2 months ago #
  3. Anonymous
    Unregistered

    Jacqui; can you email me your recording sheet?

    kimshort@gmail.com

    thanks!

    Posted 2 months ago #
  4. jacquirsw1
    Member

    Not a problem I will do it tonight

    Jacqui

    Posted 2 months ago #
  5. Kim
    Member

    Thanks Jacqui; I've registered!

    Posted 2 months ago #
  6. ComA
    Member

    Jacqui, would You send it to me too, please? Here's my e-mail:
    barbarastachon@interia.pl
    Thank you from above.

    Posted 2 months ago #
  7. jacquirsw1
    Member

    Not I prob I'll send it tonight.
    Jacqui

    Posted 2 months ago #
  8. Anonymous
    Unregistered

    Hi Jacqui, could you please sned me the recording sheet too? sara_b_108@hotmail.com
    Thanks

    Posted 1 month ago #
  9. wcgirl326
    Member

    Hi, I'm new. Have a question re step 5: dieting and other forms of food avoidance. Maybe I'm misinterpreting, but dieting to me is food restriction and if I avoid my triggers (bread, peanut butter, ice cream), that would LEAD to a binge, not prevent one from happening. Can you clarify?

    Thanks

    Posted 1 month ago #
  10. jacquirsw1
    Member

    Step 5 is about getting to the root of why you diet and avoid certain foods so that you can learn the skills to move away from this behaviour. It is a big part of the steps and to be honest is one that I took a very long time to work through the first time as everything I had every known was saying the opposite of this which was that I was fat and needed to diet.
    The truth is I don't need to diet, what I need to do is learn to have a 'normal' relationship with food, because when I do that I naturally eat less and therefore I lose weight or 'diet' without thinking about it.

    hope this clarifies for you. I didn't go into too much detail with the later steps as it is something that normally you only really find out about them when you work through the other ones so that you have got the foundations from one bit to move on to the next if that makes any sense, so didn't want to confuse with lots and lots of instructions.

    I am always happy to chat through any of this with anyone.

    if anyone has msn then you are more than welcome to add me. jacquinorbury8@hotmail.com

    Posted 1 month ago #
  11. bob
    Member

    Jacqui,

    Will you email me your recording sheet?

    mcanulty@mac.com

    Many thanks.

    Posted 1 month ago #
  12. jacquirsw1
    Member

    I have sent them

    Posted 1 month ago #
  13. luckyLMC
    Member

    send me a recording sheet too please =)

    calubayan89@yahoo.com

    Posted 1 month ago #
  14. jacquirsw1
    Member

    I have sent them. I hope you find them benificial

    Jacqui

    Posted 1 month ago #
  15. could i have the recording sheet too please ?
    specialk_sunnylee@yahoo.com

    thank you!

    Posted 1 month ago #
  16. jacquirsw1
    Member

    on their way

    Posted 1 month ago #
  17. Rainbow
    Member

    Hey everybody! I got a tip for you. There's a book which explains everything very detailed and it has the same plan in it with descriptions and many information.

    Overcoming binge eating.

    There are two parts. First information and second the above mentioned selfhelp-program

    Posted 1 month ago #
  18. jacquirsw1
    Member

    Yep that is the book. I have given the details of that out on lots of threads.

    For those that haven't seen it the author is Dr Christopher Fairburn.

    Posted 1 month ago #

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